Things I Use and Love Because They Work (Not Sponsored, Just Honest)

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I’m certainly not one to share product recommendations. And I’m definitely not cool enough to be sponsored by any of the companies I’m about to mention.

I just wanted to share some products & services I’ve used for long enough to confidently say… this shit’s pretty sweet, and maybe you’ll think so too!


Section 1: Identity, Expression & Low-Effort Joy

Keracolor Clenditioner (Conditioner-Based Hair Dye)

I love this shit!

No joke… I looked in the mirror one day after my youngest was born & just about screamed when I realized how much of my hair had gone white. Not grey…white. With how wildly frizzy my hair is, I said to myself, “I look like a haggard old mom! I gotta do something about this!!”

I figured that any hair dye would make my hair look unnatural, so…might as well make it look fun!!

Teal is my favey

I did some research on Amazon for hair dyes, and decided it would be most convenient for me to get conditioner with dye in it – that way, I could just dye it every other day or whatever & work with it that way. And that’s what I’ve been doing for at least a couple years now, with Keracolor Clenditioner.

I’ve tried their teal, purple, red, & merlot dyes. Every six months, I switch between teal & purple (just to keep myself entertained).

I don’t color treat my hair at all (no bleach or anything), so everything you see dyed in the picture above is otherwise white (😭😝).

I didn’t like the merlot or red very much – they didn’t “pop” enough for me.

The teal sticks in my hair like it belongs there. Which is lovely because it’s my favorite 😊.

The purple mixes with the teal & sticks to my white hair such that, during the months I use it, my hair has a bit of an ombre effect. It almost looks intentional, and I’m not mad about it. In darker lighting, you don’t really notice it at all (it looks dark brown like the rest of my hair), but in bright & natural light, it really “pops”.

When I switch colors, I just don’t use the dye conditioner for a month. As I said, the teal sticks like it’s supposed to be there, but the purple doesn’t. For me.

I’ve even dyed my daughters’ hair with it (the length of their ponytails) – the older one has teal & she gets quite a kick out of it, the younger one has purple & it hasn’t quite shown up much yet. Both of them have straight auburn hair (they didn’t get that from me, obviously.)

So, if you’re looking to dye your hair, I definitely recommend giving this product a shot. I’ve had a lot of fun with it!


Pair Eyewear – One Prescription, Many Identities

My ever-growing collection

Short video ads started popping up on my Facebook & Instagram for Pair Eyewear a year or so ago, and I was intrigued by the idea that I could just slap a sun shade on top of my regular glasses when I needed sunglasses.

Why does this intrigue me so? Let me tell you! 😆

Throughout the summer, I tend to wear my contacts so that I can easily wear sunglasses. However, allergy hell hits me at the very end of summer every year, leaving me unable to wear contacts with how much my eyes tend to itch. Constantly. Every day. For weeks.

Do I want to spend money on prescription sunglasses that I’ll only really need to use for a month out of the year? Hell no.

Enter Pair Eyewear.

So, what it is…

You buy a “base frame” pair of glasses for about $70 (you do need to share your prescription with them, obviously, but they’re very helpful with that) – they have all kinds of options to choose from as far as style, size, color, etc. They even have sizes & styles for men & children!

These “base frames” have small magnets in the corners so that you can buy “top frames” that match your base frame’s style, but cover the front. So, they have a constantly updated stock of top frame styles (Halloween’s my favorite), and they even have “sun shades” and “tinted lenses”.

Why did I get “silver sparkle” sun shades? I have no clue. I thought they were fun at the time, but…they’re a little much sometimes 😅 Luckily, I can just layer whatever top frames I want on top of them, & make them match whatever I’m wearing!

Why did I get “blue tint” lenses? Dude! They’re fucking awesome! They are super nerdy, but…! When it’s bright out, but not bright enough to warrant sun shades, the blue tint is perfect! Especially when I have a headache!

So if any of this resonates with you, or if you just like the idea of being able to easily switch up your glasses, definitely check out Pair Eyewear – it’s super fun, convenient, and, at times, practical as hell!


Section 2: Budget-Friendly Comfort & Practical Wins

Temu

Yes, I know.

However, a ton of things you can find on Amazon (and at other retailers) can be found cheaper on Temu – They’re just cutting out “middle men” who are trying to make a profit on the resale of these products. I was a reseller & I’ve worked in enough retail to know how businesses operate.

So anyways…

I love Temu. I try not to go too crazy – I mostly buy things you can’t really find anywhere else.

Clothes? I’m not one for “fast fashion” – I like my clothes to last at least 5 years 😅 Literally every piece of clothing I’ve gotten from Temu has held up pretty well (except for the iron-on applique on one shirt). I’ve bought shirts, jackets (with a shitty zipper, but it’s warm as hell!), boots (super warm, & sufficient in the snow!), and I wear nothing but their sherpa lined pants all winter.

Warm & cozy Temu boots…& my ass kickin’ boots

I’m getting into leatherworking, & I’ve bought some cheap tools from Temu, including the “famous” $100 manual sewing machine. All this stuff has been awesome to experiment with, without my credit card bursting into flames.

And Xmas gifts galore! I’ve found so many unique gifts for people, I don’t even know where to begin!! One time I did get a metal sign that was bent to hell in transit & I couldn’t straighten it out for the life of me, but they’re really good about refunds (I’ve never had a single problem, especially with things that disappeared during delivery).

Overall, I have not been disappointed by anything I’ve bought off this app – it’s made trying fun new things extremely affordable, which is ideal before you start spending money on quality.


Walmart Spinach & Snack Peppers

Kinda random to mention, I know, but they’re a staple in my diet.

I rarely buy produce (or protein, for that matter) from Walmart. But they have beautifully priced, quality snacking peppers & bags of spinach at my local store! I buy some every time I’m in there.

My kids are even obsessed with the peppers, & they’re food snobs!


Wegmans Onion Hummus

Yummy in my tummy!!!

On the diet note, Wegmans’ Caramelized Onion Hummus is the best hummus on the planet.

I’ve tried a lot of hummus. I do not care for most hummus.

This hummus is the bees knees! 😅

I have to buy two small buckets of it every time I go in to Wegmans because my food snob children will eat it straight out of the container. (I prefer it with my snack peppers, or carrots or celery.)

Seriously, even if you don’t like hummus, try this shit – it’s amazing!


Section 3: Money, Accountability & Intentional Friction

Cash Budget Wallet

Don’t get excited – most of that cash stack is singles

Apps are great. Cash works better for me. My husband agrees.

It’s a lot easier to know how much money you have to work with when it’s staring you in the face as opposed to being numbers on a screen.

It’s also a lot easier to second guess your purchases while you’re pulling that cash out of your wallet, as opposed to swiping a card real quick.

Not preaching; that’s just my lived experience.

A couple years ago, I was watching videos on YouTube about cash budgeting systems, and trying to figure out how I could make that work for my family.

Then I saw a video with this cash budget wallet, got all excited & bought it, and I’ve been using it ever since – I can’t even imagine how much money it’s actually saved me over the years!



None of these products or services are about optimization – they’re about making life just a little easier & more enjoyable. It’s stuff I like enough to share because maybe you’d like it too!

Small comforts count – you don’t need the “best” or most expensive version of anything. You’re allowed to like whatever works for you.

If you like this kind of real-life sharing, I post more of it on Facebook — random finds, routines, and whatever’s actually working lately.

If you’ve found something that genuinely made your life a little better, I want to hear about it – share it with me in the comments below!

Rock on!!