Things I Use and Love Because They Work (Not Sponsored, Just Honest)

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Iโ€™m certainly not one to share product recommendations. And Iโ€™m definitely not cool enough to be sponsored by any of the companies Iโ€™m about to mention.

I just wanted to share some products & services Iโ€™ve used for long enough to confidently sayโ€ฆ this shitโ€™s pretty sweet, and maybe youโ€™ll think so too!


Section 1: Identity, Expression & Low-Effort Joy

Keracolor Clenditioner (Conditioner-Based Hair Dye)

I love this shit!

No jokeโ€ฆ I looked in the mirror one day after my youngest was born & just about screamed when I realized how much of my hair had gone white. Not greyโ€ฆwhite. With how wildly frizzy my hair is, I said to myself, โ€œI look like a haggard old mom! I gotta do something about this!!โ€

I figured that any hair dye would make my hair look unnatural, soโ€ฆmight as well make it look fun!!

Teal is my favey

I did some research on Amazon for hair dyes, and decided it would be most convenient for me to get conditioner with dye in it – that way, I could just dye it every other day or whatever & work with it that way. And thatโ€™s what Iโ€™ve been doing for at least a couple years now, with Keracolor Clenditioner.

Iโ€™ve tried their teal, purple, red, & merlot dyes. Every six months, I switch between teal & purple (just to keep myself entertained).

I donโ€™t color treat my hair at all (no bleach or anything), so everything you see dyed in the picture above is otherwise white (๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜).

I didnโ€™t like the merlot or red very much – they didnโ€™t โ€œpopโ€ enough for me.

The teal sticks in my hair like it belongs there. Which is lovely because itโ€™s my favorite ๐Ÿ˜Š.

The purple mixes with the teal & sticks to my white hair such that, during the months I use it, my hair has a bit of an ombre effect. It almost looks intentional, and Iโ€™m not mad about it. In darker lighting, you donโ€™t really notice it at all (it looks dark brown like the rest of my hair), but in bright & natural light, it really โ€œpopsโ€.

When I switch colors, I just donโ€™t use the dye conditioner for a month. As I said, the teal sticks like itโ€™s supposed to be there, but the purple doesnโ€™t. For me.

Iโ€™ve even dyed my daughtersโ€™ hair with it (the length of their ponytails) – the older one has teal & she gets quite a kick out of it, the younger one has purple & it hasnโ€™t quite shown up much yet. Both of them have straight auburn hair (they didnโ€™t get that from me, obviously.)

So, if youโ€™re looking to dye your hair, I definitely recommend giving this product a shot. Iโ€™ve had a lot of fun with it!


Pair Eyewear – One Prescription, Many Identities

My ever-growing collection

Short video ads started popping up on my Facebook & Instagram for Pair Eyewear a year or so ago, and I was intrigued by the idea that I could just slap a sun shade on top of my regular glasses when I needed sunglasses.

Why does this intrigue me so? Let me tell you! ๐Ÿ˜†

Throughout the summer, I tend to wear my contacts so that I can easily wear sunglasses. However, allergy hell hits me at the very end of summer every year, leaving me unable to wear contacts with how much my eyes tend to itch. Constantly. Every day. For weeks.

Do I want to spend money on prescription sunglasses that Iโ€™ll only really need to use for a month out of the year? Hell no.

Enter Pair Eyewear.

So, what it isโ€ฆ

You buy a โ€œbase frameโ€ pair of glasses for about $70 (you do need to share your prescription with them, obviously, but theyโ€™re very helpful with that) – they have all kinds of options to choose from as far as style, size, color, etc. They even have sizes & styles for men & children!

These โ€œbase framesโ€ have small magnets in the corners so that you can buy โ€œtop framesโ€ that match your base frameโ€™s style, but cover the front. So, they have a constantly updated stock of top frame styles (Halloweenโ€™s my favorite), and they even have โ€œsun shadesโ€ and โ€œtinted lensesโ€.

Why did I get โ€œsilver sparkleโ€ sun shades? I have no clue. I thought they were fun at the time, butโ€ฆtheyโ€™re a little much sometimes ๐Ÿ˜… Luckily, I can just layer whatever top frames I want on top of them, & make them match whatever Iโ€™m wearing!

Why did I get โ€œblue tintโ€ lenses? Dude! Theyโ€™re fucking awesome! They are super nerdy, butโ€ฆ! When itโ€™s bright out, but not bright enough to warrant sun shades, the blue tint is perfect! Especially when I have a headache!

So if any of this resonates with you, or if you just like the idea of being able to easily switch up your glasses, definitely check out Pair Eyewear – itโ€™s super fun, convenient, and, at times, practical as hell!


Section 2: Budget-Friendly Comfort & Practical Wins

Temu

Yes, I know.

However, a ton of things you can find on Amazon (and at other retailers) can be found cheaper on Temu – Theyโ€™re just cutting out โ€œmiddle menโ€ who are trying to make a profit on the resale of these products. I was a reseller & Iโ€™ve worked in enough retail to know how businesses operate.

So anywaysโ€ฆ

I love Temu. I try not to go too crazy – I mostly buy things you canโ€™t really find anywhere else.

Clothes? Iโ€™m not one for โ€œfast fashionโ€ – I like my clothes to last at least 5 years ๐Ÿ˜… Literally every piece of clothing Iโ€™ve gotten from Temu has held up pretty well (except for the iron-on applique on one shirt). Iโ€™ve bought shirts, jackets (with a shitty zipper, but itโ€™s warm as hell!), boots (super warm, & sufficient in the snow!), and I wear nothing but their sherpa lined pants all winter.

Warm & cozy Temu boots…& my ass kickin’ boots

Iโ€™m getting into leatherworking, & Iโ€™ve bought some cheap tools from Temu, including the โ€œfamousโ€ $100 manual sewing machine. All this stuff has been awesome to experiment with, without my credit card bursting into flames.

And Xmas gifts galore! Iโ€™ve found so many unique gifts for people, I donโ€™t even know where to begin!! One time I did get a metal sign that was bent to hell in transit & I couldnโ€™t straighten it out for the life of me, but theyโ€™re really good about refunds (Iโ€™ve never had a single problem, especially with things that disappeared during delivery).

Overall, I have not been disappointed by anything Iโ€™ve bought off this app – itโ€™s made trying fun new things extremely affordable, which is ideal before you start spending money on quality.


Walmart Spinach & Snack Peppers

Kinda random to mention, I know, but theyโ€™re a staple in my diet.

I rarely buy produce (or protein, for that matter) from Walmart. But they have beautifully priced, quality snacking peppers & bags of spinach at my local store! I buy some every time Iโ€™m in there.

My kids are even obsessed with the peppers, & theyโ€™re food snobs!


Wegmans Onion Hummus

Yummy in my tummy!!!

On the diet note, Wegmansโ€™ Caramelized Onion Hummus is the best hummus on the planet.

Iโ€™ve tried a lot of hummus. I do not care for most hummus.

This hummus is the bees knees! ๐Ÿ˜…

I have to buy two small buckets of it every time I go in to Wegmans because my food snob children will eat it straight out of the container. (I prefer it with my snack peppers, or carrots or celery.)

Seriously, even if you donโ€™t like hummus, try this shit – itโ€™s amazing!


Section 3: Money, Accountability & Intentional Friction

Cash Budget Wallet

Don’t get excited – most of that cash stack is singles

Apps are great. Cash works better for me. My husband agrees.

Itโ€™s a lot easier to know how much money you have to work with when itโ€™s staring you in the face as opposed to being numbers on a screen.

Itโ€™s also a lot easier to second guess your purchases while youโ€™re pulling that cash out of your wallet, as opposed to swiping a card real quick.

Not preaching; thatโ€™s just my lived experience.

A couple years ago, I was watching videos on YouTube about cash budgeting systems, and trying to figure out how I could make that work for my family.

Then I saw a video with this cash budget wallet, got all excited & bought it, and Iโ€™ve been using it ever since – I canโ€™t even imagine how much money itโ€™s actually saved me over the years!



None of these products or services are about optimization – theyโ€™re about making life just a little easier & more enjoyable. Itโ€™s stuff I like enough to share because maybe youโ€™d like it too!

Small comforts count – you donโ€™t need the โ€œbestโ€ or most expensive version of anything. Youโ€™re allowed to like whatever works for you.

If you like this kind of real-life sharing, I post more of it on Facebook โ€” random finds, routines, and whateverโ€™s actually working lately.

If youโ€™ve found something that genuinely made your life a little better, I want to hear about it – share it with me in the comments below!

Rock on!!