Find Your Spark: My โ€˜Fuck Yeahโ€™ Version of the Excitement Map

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I recently watched a video by Tiago Forte about what he calls โ€œThe Excitement Mapโ€.

He suggests using it to figure out what goals to go after, because focusing on what excites you naturally boosts life satisfaction.

I like it because it reminds me how much of life can be exciting when Iโ€™m feeling pretty โ€œblahโ€.

How To Make One

He used a โ€œmind mapโ€ layout for his, with โ€œlifeโ€ at the center and branches extending from there.

I just made lists. And Iโ€™m calling it my โ€œFuck Yeah Listโ€, because these are things you should always say โ€œfuck yeah!โ€ to. ๐Ÿ˜†

Basically, you just make a list (or branches) of things that energize & fascinate you. Donโ€™t get too specific to start, just general categories or subjects of interest – whatever โ€œlights you upโ€. He suggests browsing through your digital life for ideas (such as videos & articles youโ€™ve saved, observations throughout the day, etc). A good question to ask yourself to help add to the list is โ€œWhat did you enjoy doing as a kid? No judgment, no guilt tripping yourself with what you think should be on there – just the things that genuinely spark something in your soul. Tiago even goes so far as to say that these should be things you feel you have a physical, visceral passion for.

From there, youโ€™d get more specific – ask yourself & write down what about each topic makes it important or meaningful or exciting for you.

Now you have something to work with however you see useful. โค๏ธ

My โ€œFuck Yeah Listโ€

I expected myself to struggle with making my own list because Iโ€™ve been feeling pretty โ€œblahโ€ lately (distracted, overwhelmed, worried โ€” you know, all the fun mental clutter.)

But once I got going on it, it really came together nicely! So hereโ€™s what I came up with :

  • Writing
    • Sharing things that excite / interest me
    • Feeling proud of something I’ve written
  • Nature
    • Seeing things I don’t see very often (certain birds, butterflies, ruins)
    • Fresh air, refreshing breeze
    • Flowing water
  • Adventures
    • Experiencing different places & things
    • Shopping
    • Hiking
    • Events
  • Music
    • Concerts
    • Dancing
  • Witchcraft
    • Nature
    • Meditation
    • Protection
  • Learning
    • Psychology
    • Stoicism
    • Buddhism
    • Health
    • Neurology
  • Exercise
    • Getting stronger, leaner, faster
    • Dancing, coordination
  • Cooking
    • Putting together healthy, delicious dinners for my loved ones
  • Notion
    • Creating engaging, functional workspaces for different purposes
  • Driving
    • Cruising around at night, no one else on the road, listening to music with the windows wide open
    • Going 70+ on the highway, legally

If youโ€™ve been feeling flat lately, this is a game-changer. Make your own Excitement Map and see what lights you up. Share this post if you think someone else needs the reminder.

Rock on!

What If Your Midlife Crisis Is Actually Emotional Exhaustion?

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Why did I think I’d escape the good ol cliche โ€œmid life crisisโ€? Oh yeah, because I was sure I already went through one like ten years ago. Yet here we are.

I keep coming across reminders that I need to โ€œReclaim a part of myselfโ€. The random stale Camel from the pack I’ve had for 3 years because I quit smoking 6 years ago. A renewed passion for music and concerts (since I was the local ska princess 20+ years ago lol). And craving urbex, deep conversations, and fun parties.

Or at least an occasional break from homeschooling, making dinners, & attempting to clean the house (always a futile goal).

Is it a mid life crisis though? Or emotional burnout from all the bullshit I’ve been through the past few years (caregiving, stress, the world melting down)?

Yeah, probably both.

Could be worse though, I supposeโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ˜‰


๐Ÿ”ฅ Reclaiming yourself isnโ€™t selfish โ€” itโ€™s survival.

Got your own midlife (or burnout) story? Share it in the comments or repost with your own โ€œclues from the universe.โ€ Letโ€™s normalize the chaos.

Stay weird. Stay loud. Stay you. โœจ

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Rock on!