Exercise Without the Bullshit: Movement for Vitality, Strength & Confidence

Forget perfect workouts. Move because you’re alive, because you can, and because feeling strong beats chasing a number on the scale.

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I should do a post about rest & sleep, because those things are pretty important for your body (and thus also for your mind, heart, & soul), butโ€ฆ I really donโ€™t have anything to say on the topic, to be honest. I donโ€™t sleep great, in large part because of my back problems (also in large part because of the five year old who crawls into bed next to me every night & proceeds to kick my ass for six hours). I figured I should mention it, though, as something to bear in mind.

Moving on, this post is about movement – whatever that looks like for each of us on any given day.

Iโ€™ll share the types of movement I enjoy, but Iโ€™d love to hear what you enjoy in the comments!!

Everybody’s Got Limits

Because of the possibility of carrying an ALS-associated gene, I like to move because Iโ€™m grateful that I canโ€”I donโ€™t want to take that simple fact for granted.

However, I realize everyone deals with mobility issues to some degree. Myself included. So, movement looks different for everyone.

For some, itโ€™s an intense 60 minute workout. For others, itโ€™s 5 minutes of Tai chi.

Time is obviously another issue – how much time can you find for intentional movement?

We all have limitations. We all have to figure out how to work within those limitations without pushing too far (& thus kicking our own asses).

Exercise Without the Punishment

As I mentioned in my last post of this series, I started on a mild weight loss journey a bit over a year ago.

Part of that involved movement, of course. So, I worked my way up to a daily routine including : 20 minutes of cardio, 15 minutes of arm strength or belly dancing, and 5 minutes each of yoga & Tai chi.

As I also mentioned in my last post, I got pretty jaded from it all.

Now, I do a bit less (in part because of the stress on my back from physical therapy), but Iโ€™m still at it.

No longer for the sake of weight loss.

For the sake of vitality, strength, & confidence.

Cardio: Get Your Blood Moving

Iโ€™ve been doing 10 minute videos, most mornings. Itโ€™s good to get your blood flowing ๐Ÿ˜‰

A few of my favorite YouTube channels :

MonikaFit

JuiceandToya

growwithjo

Strength: Stop Being Spaghetti

10 minutes here, too (because my upper body strength was basically comparable to spaghetti) :

fitbymik

MadFit

HaileyC

Belly Dancing: Because Why the Hell Not?

BellyFITbyLeilah

Choose Your Own Adventure

What do you enjoy doing? Roller skating, skateboarding, jogging, martial arts, lifting weights, gardening & yardworkโ€ฆthe possibilities are endless!

Any sort of intentional movement can be a good goal – whatever is enough to help you get out of your mind, & in to your body.

Yoga: Meditation in Motion

Iโ€™m a fan. A big fan.

Iโ€™ve been practicing yoga for about 25 years now.

Obviously, my back wonโ€™t let me advance to the contortionist pretzel poses, but thatโ€™s beside the point – I still thoroughly enjoy what I can do.

As a challenge to the gentlemen in the audience – yoga isnโ€™t just for the ladies! My physical therapist practices, my exes used to practice with me occasionallyโ€ฆ Itโ€™s just very intentional stretching!

I learned in the yoga class I took in college to think of it as releasing โ€œstagnantโ€ energy in the body, allowing it to flow.

And in the process, it also nourishes your balance, flexibility, and strength. Physically, and thus also mentally.

Iโ€™ve found that the breathwork involved can certainly prepare the mind & body for meditation too; it can actually be a form of meditation in motion.

Yoga teaches patience & restraint – you shouldnโ€™t push yourself too hard, or youโ€™ll get hurt. (If it hurts, youโ€™re doing it fucking wrong.)

YogaWithBird

yogawithkassandra

Unbelievably Effective Yoga For Uncertain Times (she has a lot of yoga videos, but this one is the least stressful that Iโ€™ve found lol)

Iโ€™ve recently discovered tantric yoga, which Iโ€™ve found pretty enjoyable too. Especially this one (even though the audio is a bit questionable, itโ€™s a nice place to start) : Yoga for Sensuality and Inner Connection. To me, tantric yoga is the chaos magick of yoga, where youโ€™ve been doing it for long enough to know what you enjoy & can make it very much your own practice.

Tai Chi & Qi Gong: Movement for Busy Brains

โ€œOld friendโ€ introduced me to Tai Chi a million years ago, but I didnโ€™t start seriously looking into it until relatively recently.

Come to find out, Iโ€™d been doing my own version of this sort of thing for longer than I can remember!

Qi Gong has roots in ancient Chinese traditions of movement, breathwork, meditation, and cultivation of life energy, with practices evolving over thousands of years.

Tai Chi is a Chinese martial art that incorporates many of the same principles and practices.

I enjoy both.

Like yoga, both Qi Gong and Tai Chi practices are very much meditation in motion – utilizing breathwork during movements, and focusing on the movement of energy throughout the body.

They can encourage range of motion, physical awareness, balance, and gentle full-body movement.

And theyโ€™re great for busy brains because of the constant movement.

Qigong Meditation – Lots of good videos, taught by a monk โ˜บ

Taiflow has a lot of great videos too, but this one’s my favorite.

And Phoenix Mountain Tai Chi has a few good videos, but this one is definitely my favorite.


When You Just Can’t Even: Minimum Viable Movement

So, what can you do when you โ€œjust canโ€™t evenโ€?

Iโ€™ve been there. Quite a bit lately, actually.

For me, my minimum options are 5-10 minutes of yoga & Tai Chi. And Iโ€™m currently working on reintroducing my regular, more strenuous workouts back into my day. Gently.


Get Out of Your Head & Into Your Body.

Maybe the goal isn’t to become fitter, thinner, stronger, more flexible, or more disciplined.

Maybe sometimes the goal is simply to feel alive in your body.

Move because you can.

Move because it feels good.

Move because your brain won’t shut the fuck up and your body deserves some attention.

Move because you’re grateful to still be here.

And when you really, truly, just can’t even?

Five minutes counts.

Minimum viable movement is still movement.

So what does movement look like for you? What makes you feel strong, grounded, playful, or simply more in your body? Tell me in the comments – Iโ€™d genuinely love to hear it.

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Stay real. Live vibrantly. And rock the fuck on. ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค˜๐Ÿป

Sprint 5 Goal Recap

Iโ€™ve altered my goal planning system quite a bit over the past few months, and one major change Iโ€™ve adapted is using the idea of โ€œ6 week sprintsโ€, where I work on certain goals for 6 weeks, and then take 2 weeks to wrap things up & prepare for the next sprint. I like sharing my progress with you all, so hereโ€™s a recap of โ€œSprint #5โ€โ€ฆ

(I definitely took on too much this past sprint – Live & learn!)

Body

I was feeling pretty rough about my physical state. I had been taking medication that caused me to gain 25+ pounds in the course of only about 6 months (despite my physicianโ€™s assistant insisting it wouldnโ€™t), and I was ready to start working it off. I managed to maintain a doable exercise routine : 2 days with 15 minutes of cardio, 1 day with 15 minutes of bellydancing hehe, 3 days of arm workouts (itโ€™s a pain point for me), and 1 day of yoga or tai chi; plus a quick workout with my kids for their homeschool days, and a few minutes of yoga to end each night. And 5 squats every time I go to the bathroom (which, surprisingly, really slimmed my thighs!) As far as diet, which I consider more important than exercise, I was initially trying to just be mindful & include more water, produce, & protein in my daily meals. I did fairly well at first, but discovered a lot of problems toward the end. So, this is something Iโ€™ll be working on during the next sprint, while I continue my enjoyable exercise routine!

Wife

My husbandโ€”boy, do I love him, but he drives me fucking crazy sometimes! He’s retired, so we spend an awful lot of time together. Which is a good thing, but I do appreciate my space. And with two young kids, it’s a lot of finagling.

So, I spent the sprint contemplating marriage advice that I occasionally forget about (patience, compassion, all that good stuff), and journaling my way through difficult emotions as they arose (instead of getting upset). I managed to improve our communication & improve his attitude as a result. I also made a point to be more affectionate & open, using things I learned from the Tantra course I took earlier this year. Everything turned out great! Now I need to maintain it without being a main focus, as far as goals go.

One thing I do still need to work on is my libido. Iโ€™ve always had low energy in this realm. So, next sprint Iโ€™m going to try to work on that (& Iโ€™m sure Hubby will be grateful lol!)

Reseller

Ugh.

I realized I donโ€™t really care about resale anymore. At least, not the way Iโ€™ve been doing it. I canโ€™t find the time, energy, or motivation to prep inventory, let alone list daily. So, this goal really didnโ€™t go anywhere. However, I did realize I need to restructure my business plan so that I can do something with this path. I donโ€™t have a massive amount of inventory to taking up real estate in my home, but I do have more than Iโ€™d feel comfortable donating. The original idea of starting the resale business was to have fun working with Hubby, but heโ€™s more of an โ€œin personโ€ kind of seller. So I need to restructure to offload the inventory I have (which Iโ€™m dreading) so that I can get him focused on working with other items in the warmer months. Yeah. I donโ€™t know. lol. I gotta figure something out though.

Ikigai

On a lighter business note (LOL!)โ€ฆ I started journaling about what I wanted more of in my life, and how I can try to make some money from it. I came to the realization that I love writing & I love helping people. So I need to figure out how to make money doing these things – My passion project. I resituated my blog here (though there are definitely more improvements to be made!), and did a ton of research on the directions I want to go with this โ€œIkigaiโ€ project, including useful products & eventually coaching. Iโ€™m kind of just enjoying the process & seeing where it takes me right now. I hope youโ€™re enjoying it with me!!

Next Sprint

So, the main things Iโ€™ll be focusing on for my next sprint are my diet & my libido. Hubbyโ€™s been nagging me about taking a trip (since I had to scrap plans Iโ€™d been working on for months because he wasnโ€™t ready for it, but I digress); so, Iโ€™ll have to plan a simple cabin camping trip for the family sometime soon. I should also work on my business plans, both for resale & my Ikigai. Iโ€™ll update on these when I can โ™ฅ๏ธ

How have your goals been going this year? What are you contemplating for next year? Letโ€™s chat in the comments below, or feel free to shoot me an email at zenblitz@yahoo.com if youโ€™d like to say hi in private!!

Where Iโ€™m at #1

โ€œWhere Iโ€™m atโ€ posts are just random updates about whatโ€™s going on in my life at any random time, based on the areas / roles in my life. Any particular goals Iโ€™m working on will be highlighted, so you can easily see what Iโ€™m actively working on improving (and see that I do try to practice what I preach). Leave a comment & give me ideas for things youโ€™d like to see me write individual posts about!

  • planner : Iโ€™m loving Notion. I forgot that I enjoy moving blocks around like I used to when WordPress first started using that system (I think before I even originally started this blog!) So once I realized you have to play with Notion on a computer and not your phone, a whole new world opened up for me lol! Now I pretty much do everything on Notion, and I love every second of it!!!
  • self (body & mind, emotion & education) : My #1 goals right now is to eat more mindfully & exercise more. So, Iโ€™ve been making sure that I eat a lot of protein & produce every day, trying to eat more consistently throughout the day (since Iโ€™m the type to graze a little & then go overboard at dinner), and paying attention to my portions. Itโ€™s a lot of work, but Iโ€™m definitely making progress because I feel a lot better (and thatโ€™s the goal!) Iโ€™ve implemented a quick 15 minute exercise routine every morning, I do a little exercise with my kids when we do school, and Iโ€™ve been doing a few minutes of yoga at night. And I started a habit I like to call Squatty Potty LOL (nothing to do with the Shark Tank idea!) – Every time I go to the bathroom, I do 5 squats lol! I like it actually!! ๐Ÿ˜† As for mind, Iโ€™ve been trying to write in my A5 Stalogy journal more often, and Iโ€™ve been working on a proper PARA PKM setup on Notion (of course).
  • marriage (relationship & libido) : My second most important goal! Hubby & I have been through a lot over the past couple years, so Iโ€™m really trying to focus on improving our marriage right now. Iโ€™ve been reading a lot of articles on the topic, and making sure that I am giving all the affection that I want to get. And itโ€™s been working! Weโ€™re pretty happy right now, though thereโ€™s always improvements to be made. A lot of it has just been a shift in perspective. As for my libidoโ€ฆ Iโ€™ve always had a low libido. Even though Hubbyโ€™s a wonderful lover, I just donโ€™tโ€ฆI donโ€™t know! I really donโ€™t know. Iโ€™m always trying to do too many things, honestly, and I have trouble slowing down to make love I guess! But Iโ€™m trying. Iโ€™m making sure we donโ€™t go very long without some intimate time, and I try to flirt with him a bit every day. We used to get yelled at in restaurants for making out at our table LOL, but we have kids now, so we donโ€™t even get to go out on dates hardly ever, unfortunately. Which is another thing Iโ€™ve been working on correcting. Anyway! I took a course on DailyOm last year which focused on tantra called โ€œSacred Sexuality: Open the Energy of Intimacyโ€, which I really enjoyed. I might try another course they have, โ€œRadical Intimacyโ€, which seems to touch on a lot of similar ideas. Weโ€™ll see.
  • mom (BooBoo & Bubby) : As Iโ€™m writing this, Booboo is sick. Sheโ€™s just got a bit of a cold. I blame the triplets she was hanging out with at the library, even though they didnโ€™t seem sick. Gotta blame someone, right?!? LOL! I always get nervous when she gets sick because she had a fever seizure the one time, & it freaked me right out. But sheโ€™s in good spirits. But very snotty lol. Bubbyโ€™s doing great! She really loves watching Baby Bus on YouTube, which is actually fairly educational! And she also loves playing with dolls.
  • teacher (K & PK) : School is going pretty well. I dropped Busy Toddlerโ€™s Playing Preschool year 2 for Bubby for now because I felt like it was too advanced for her, and weโ€™re just doing Easy Peasy All in One Homeschoolโ€™s Kindergarten & Preschool. Theyโ€™re really enjoying it! Boobooโ€™s been working through phonics (she had a lot of trouble & irritation with sight words), and sheโ€™s doing absolutely awesome with it! She can practically read anything she tries to!
  • zB : My โ€œIkigaiโ€! Iโ€™m having a lot f fun doing research & making a plan to take zenBLITZ to a whole other level by blogging more and eventually working on more products & services such as workbooks, printable stationery, & eventually private coaching. Iโ€™m just too excited!!!
  • homemaker (finance, cleaning, gardening, prepping, travel) : Uh, yeah. LOL. Iโ€™ve actually been keeping up with housework fairly well. I just audited the fridge, freezer, & pantry, and I found a bunch of stuff in the pantry that we need to get creative with before it ends up in the trash. Hubby used up the Frenchโ€™s fried onions last night in a delicious green bean casserole. Finances are going well. Gonna need to wrap up the garden pretty soon – weโ€™ve still got zucchini, tomatoes, peppers, & herbs producing goodness (when the groundhog lets them!) Ya know, I got one of those motion sensors that are supposed to deter animals, but I donโ€™t think some of them give a crap about it! It emits a high pitched noise when it gets set off, & Iโ€™m the only human I know who can actually hear it. And it drives me crazy! Why doesnโ€™t the groundhog care?!? Prepping & travel are on the backburner. Weโ€™re usually pretty well prepped for events like snowstorms, power outages, or pandemics lol. We did just get a Jackery portable power station, though, & Hubbyโ€™s all excited & wants to get some new solar panels for it. Itโ€™s pretty awesome, Iโ€™d definitely recommend it! And as for travelโ€ฆ I had plans to go on a nice road trip, but that got derailed by Hubbyโ€™s household projects. Especially since he wanted to turn his mini school bus into our camper, & itโ€™s not quite ready yet. Maybe next year.
  • witch : Iโ€™ve been meditating daily, and playing with my Happy Grimoire (Iโ€™ll have to share that soon, itโ€™s pretty sweet!) And we did a nice little homeschool lesson designed by ChatGPT for Mabon, which we all really enjoyed : Booboo learned a bit about equinoxes (sheโ€™s really into โ€œspaceโ€), we read about an orchard, we baked some muffins, and we went on an autumn scavenger hunt. It was really fun. We still gotta get to the local orchard, and make a collage with our scavenger hunt findings though! Iโ€™m looking forward to planning for Samhain soon!
  • reseller : Ugh. I donโ€™t really enjoy reselling anymore. I have a goal to get the shops in full gear for Q4 so I can at least make enough money to pay off my associated credit card, but I have no enthusiasm for it! I think next year Iโ€™m just gonna pivot to local sales so Hubby can have something to do cuz thatโ€™s really why I got into it in the first place. Iโ€™d rather focus my efforts on zenBLITZ!
  • Other things Iโ€™ve been interested in lately :
    • Digital Minimalism : Trying not to spend too much time on my phone. Laptop is for morning productivity. But Iโ€™m trying not to get too distracted by reading stuff throughout the day. Iโ€™m working on being more intentional about the content I consume, I should say.
    • Capsule wardrobe / daily uniform : I didnโ€™t realize I already pretty much have a โ€œdaily uniformโ€, but I do have certain items I wear for certain occasions. And I didnโ€™t realize I already pretty much have a capsule wardrobe, but I kinda do! I limit myself to certain numbers of certain items! I review my wardrobe twice a year, when I switch my closet to summer or winter clothes! I do need to pair it down quite a bit now because thereโ€™s a lot of things that either donโ€™t fit me or I donโ€™t like, so Iโ€™m glad Iโ€™ll be switching my closet for cold weather soon lol!
    • Meal prepping : I was always really against meal prepping. But I got inspired by Shutterbeanโ€™s super lax meal prepping philosophy, and Iโ€™ve tried it out the past couple weeks, and I really like it! I donโ€™t prep every single thing, but I prep whatever I feel is manageable to help the week go more smoothly. More on this in a future post!

Currently

eating : protein & produce!

drinking : water, coffee with ID Pumpkin Spice creamer (itโ€™s the only pumpkin spice I really like hehe)

watching : The Mayfair Witches, The Penguin, Resident Alien, Sweet Tooth, Dead Boy Detectives

reading : The 4 Hour Workweek by Tim Ferriss, Good Morning Good Life by Amy Landino, & The Homeschooling Starter Guide by Gina Riley. I read a little bit of whatever strikes me each day.

playing : Russian Roulette with my free time LOL

buying : groceries ๐Ÿคช

listening to : YouTube planner videos

celebrating : my birthday soon!

pinning : homeschool ideas, recipes, planner spreads

planning : a very busy October!

feeling : tired, optimistic, excited